Sometimes friends, even if they have no expertise in the area you’re struggling with, can provide the needed support to face your fear.ġ1. Whatever you’re afraid of, is it something you have to do alone? Can you find a mentor or support group to help you through it? Athletes have coaches.
Ask yourself what’s the worst that can happen? Sometimes the reality is bad, but often you might find that the fear itself is worse than whatever it is you’re afraid of happening.ġ0. How big of a deal, really, is the thing you’re afraid of? We sometimes get so caught up in the success or failure of a particular quest that we lose sense of where it fits in with everything else we value. The same practice will prepare you to succeed at whatever you’re trying to achieve.ĩ. This mental mapping ensures that when the body moves, it’s more likely to follow its pre-ordained path. Athletes may imagine the successful completion of a physical task thousands of times before achieving it. Surround yourself with people who will push you to overcome the fears that are holding you back from what you want.Ĩ. Have you ever done something scary, like jumping off a high bridge into a river below, only because you were with friends who were egging you on? Peer pressure, like fear itself, can be positive or negative depending on how it’s wielded. If you don’t have that much time, Gallo says “I find that practicing a presentation a minimum of 10 times is ideal.”ħ. Jill Bolte-Taylor who practiced her popular TED talk (over 18 million views and counting) more than 200 times. Carmine Gallo, author of Talk Like TED, told me about Dr. If your fear is related to your performance in a certain activity then prepare, practice, and role play. In many surveys, death itself ranks in second place to standing in front of a group and opening your mouth.
The long standing top fear in the United States is public speaking. If your fear is based on a lack of information, then get the information or knowledge you need to examine the situation based on facts rather than speculation.Ħ. We are afraid of nothing so much as the unknown. But what’s your three month outlook, or the outlook for three years from now? Thinking about the long term won’t fix your short term problem, but it can help you think about it more objectively and come up with the right solution.ĥ. If you’re an entrepreneur, you may be afraid you won’t make the next payroll. When you try to ignore your fear, it grows. Say your fear out loud, write it down, or focus your mind on it. Sometimes merely stating what your fear is gives you the strength to deal with it. When fear strikes consider whether the correct action might be to analyze the options and make a wise, well thought out choice rather than jumping to what seems right in the heat of the moment.ģ. Many a successful undertaking has been threatened or ruined by haste alone. Don’t just do something, stand there! We tend to admire people who are quick to action, but being deliberate, creating a plan, and pacing yourself are also actions.
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